27 Sep 9TH YEAR ANNIVERSARY
Today is a special day It’s our 9th year anniversary. I got to thinking about how powerful the 9th year of marriage is.
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In numerology the 9th year is the year of completion. The cycles are 1-9. It’s a year of harvesting all that you’ve worked for it will lay you flat on your ass if you need to be forced to look at something.
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Over the years together Jeremy and I have been relentless in our fight.
:Sometimes our fight to be right.
Sometimes our fight to be heard.
Sometimes our fight to dissolve the ways of being that are not working for our partnership.
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If you read Jeremy’s post from earlier today you’ll read that it’s not been easy journey. Let’s just say my angels had a party 9 years ago today because marriage for me meant that I had to breakthrough all of the fears I had about opening my heart again. I’m thankful I did say YES and have been on this soul repair journey with the one and only Jeremy DeWeese.
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I think this quote sums it up quite well:
“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.
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A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.
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A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…” Elizabeth Gilbert
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I choose to live with my soul mate ❤ but this quote hits home.
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On this 9th year anniversary we are going to revise our vows and begin to commit to an UPWARD SPIRAL of love. In which we stand for each others greatness by lovingly sharing the greatest version that we see for the other helping each other to spiral upwards. Not by shaming, criticizing, or judgment which is what we have done way too much of these last 9 years.
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Happy completion of all that it’s taken to get here today. I am grateful for all of it. The good the bad and the ugly.
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Thank you for always standing for my greatness and being such a fierce lover. It’s made me stronger in every way. Happy anniversary. ❤️??